December 2011
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TV shows that have had student-teacher plots
Friends - Frank Jr and his teacher Mrs Knight (Alice) begin to date, and eventually marry on the show.
Gossip Girl - Dan and Ms Carr, a new teacher at Constance. Some students start a rumour that the two were together, and Ms Carr is fired. Immediately after she is fired, she has sex with Dan reasoning that it is okay since “[she] doesn’t teach at Constance anymore so there is no...
November 2011
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Jezbel responds to Glee's student-teacher episode
Like I said, I contacted Jezebel and implored them to write an article about Glee’s latest story plot - a male student and female teacher having a sexual relationship, which makes me want to spit. I even pointed out Rachel’s former crush on Mr Schu which was quickly explained as being inappropriate (and rightly so), which Jezebel was unaware of. So I’m glad I could help...
theawkwardxenoglossophile asked: Hey, hey, hey! Just me, stopping in again. Hello and good luck. We all believe in your strength to do it and want the best outcome :3
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Anonymous asked: do you know anything about repressed memories? i'm worried...
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A response from Jezebel.com..
After watching that disgusting episode of Glee, I went straight to my laptop to fire off an email to Jezebel.com. I’d noticed they’d made mention of the inappropriate scene from the episode, but not of the double standards, and definitely not to the degree I’d have hoped for. Within hours, I had a response. I was pretty irate after the episode, but getting an immediate response...
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Glee mocks teacher sexual abuse - thanks for the...
I was disappointed in Glee after watching the latest episode today.
To say the least.
I had always respected Glee for their integrity. They supported a variety of issues on their show - mental & physical disabilities, insecurity, paraplegia, OCD, homophobia, racism, discrimination….the list goes on. But for some reason, while they support some issues, they mock others.
This...
October 2011
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When the media does something that bugs me, I...
Anderson Cooper featured Courtney Stodden’s story on his “Ridiculist” recently. While I love Anderson Cooper, he was ignorant and insulting in the way he discussed the story. So instead of bitching about it to myself, I sent him a letter. I have no idea whether anyone from his show will ever read it or even care, but it made me feel better. However….it’s beyond...
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Courtney Stodden is a victim, not a slut.
I’m so sick of hearing all of these ignorant opinions about the Courtney Stodden controversy. If you are unfamiliar, Courtney Stodden is a seventeen year old girl, who was sixteen when her parents consented for her to marry actor Doug Hutchison….age fifty-one. Seen below:
It was hard for me to find a picture of her that didn’t seem to classify as child porn.
Because of her...
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A wolf in sheep's clothing is really just a sheep...
I was just out for a walk, and guess who drove by as I turned off of my street? Yep..
When I see anyone in that family, it always takes me longer than everyone else to recognize them. I’m not sure why - maybe it’s because my mind immediately goes into protection-mode - so this time it took me a good three seconds to connect the dots. My friend muttered an “oh my God” and I...
rainwater-tea asked: Stay strong. I'm not sure if you've been to court yet or not, but either way, I'm supporting you all the way. You're an inspiration to all the other girls in your position.
September 2011
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gooooing to court again
Now I’m being roped into a trial to determine whether my teacher gets his license yanked.. Meaning I have to testify. Again. I will probably be cross-examined by his ugly, heartless female lawyer. Again.
(She reminded me of an unfashionable mountain with bad hair and glasses.. And used dirty tactics to try to confuse and upset me. Wait a min, that’s all defense attorneys!)
I...
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apparently the rumor is that my teacher is getting...
a rumor that he obviously started. A rumor that is untrue because his teaching license is currently being investigated, and an official decision has yet to be made. It’s funny that people automatically believe it without asking me.
“hey did you hear John Doe is getting his job back because he says so??”
“omg really”
lol. I actually laughed at that, because...
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going to therapy is like
having a $160 tea party every week <3
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The truth about Vili Fualaau & Mary Kay Letourneau...
Mary Kay Fualaau (born January 30, 1962), formerly known as Mary Kay Letourneau, is an American schoolteacher who was imprisoned from 1997 to 2004 for having sexual intercourse with her 13-year-old student, Vili Fualaau. She gave birth to two of Fualaau’s children while incarcerated. After her release from prison in 2004, Letourneau married Fualaau and took his name.
Long story...
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if anyone needs to talk, I'll give you my email...
just don’t spam me
August 2011
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Alaska High School Teacher Sentenced in Sexual... →
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Think you're going to get away with sexual abuse?
lol.
I’m going to work tirelessly to track down all or any of your other victims. You can fight one charge, but you can’t fight two of the same. So go snort your coke and tell your entire family you’re innocent..have fun with that. Because I’m going to find all your skeletons.
And then I’m going to dance around with them in front of you.
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“When I was raped I lost my virginity and almost lost my life. I also discarded...”
– Alice Sebold
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I saw him and screamed in his face
in my dream. Too bad it wasn’t IRL. I told him he was a piece of shit and he yelled back at me with a smirk on his face.
I think that’s what I didn’t think about.. If I ever do get to confront him, will he try to attack me verbally? Will he even have the balls to respond after what he did?
I would rip him a new asshole with just my words.
Quit laughing I’m serious.
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“Since then I’ve always thought that under rape in the dictionary it should...”
– Alice Sebold
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“After telling the hard facts to anyone from lover to friend, I have changed in...”
– Alice Sebold
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“It’s progress, not perfection.”
theawkwardxenoglossophile asked: I am so proud of you for continuing to speak out :)
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The Tom Ellison Sex Scandal - Vancouver teacher →
I am lucky enough to have a copy of the documentary School of Secrets, which interviews a few of the women (now adults) victimized by this teacher.
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So proud of my new friend Alyssia
http://caclove.tumblr.com/post/8713635132/a-call-to-action
Through our participation in the article for Seventeen (I am written about under the name Michelle) we were able to “meet” and talk about our experiences - something I am really thankful for. Then we were asked to be on the TODAY show, and out of the few girls that were asked, Alyssia was brave enough to make the decision to...
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I saw his son yesterday
..who witnessed most of the abuse. I wonder what he thinks about when he sees me. He usually looks like he wants to puke… I wish I could talk to him.
He has two kids, a son and daughter who are both older than me, in their 20’s, and both have completely different views on their dad.
His son always knew he was a predator, and would freak out when I wuold come over because he knew...
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Life in the fast lane.: A Call to Action →
caclove:
My name is Alyssia Cutolo and I was a junior at Terry Sanford High School in Fayetteville, North Carolina. I was conned and manipulated into a sexual relationship with a teacher at my school. I do not expect any of you to understand what it was like to go through something like this, but there…
I love this girl. People need to read this..it is so much like my own story.
flashingstorms asked: Hi. I came upon your blog somewhat randomly, and it really surprised me how open you were to what happened to you and how you're trying to help others that've been abused. When I read your post about your friends seeing him drive around with other girls, I felt sick to my stomach. You're still haunted by those demons, but I think it's just amazing how you still want to help...
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Watch the Today show on NBC, Thursday @ 8AM...
They are doing a segment on teacher-student sexual abuse and have interviewed a few girls whom I have had the opportunity to speak with. They are smart, articulate and gorgeous girls with unique stories to tell, and I am proud of them all for having the guts to speak about this to the entire continent.
Hope you guys will watch!
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Missed my chance to be on the fucking Today show
FUCK. Thanks again asshole for ruining my life because I have to be sewww careful of the legal ramifications. Fuck off.
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Watchcaclove:
oreomustdie:
A little backstory to this clip before you watch it:
Will Smith’s father abandoned him and his mother when he was a child, and when Will was finally getting into show business and making a name for himself, he tried to sneak his way back into his life like nothing happened. Will co-wrote this episode, and James Avery (Uncle Phil) said “this scene was the hardest thing...
Anonymous asked: how do you know what is normal teacher behavior vs what is not? if a teacher invites you to stop by for a fun chat is that just being friendly?
caclove asked: I was featured in the Seventeen magazine and I just want to say that it takes a lot of guts to stand up and say "This is not okay and I will not allow it." Keep an eye on your teacher and try and be available for any of the girls it might be happening to. Try and watch out for it. You're a strong girl and I'm proud of you.
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New Missouri law bans "exclusive" online contact...
“A controversial new law in Missouri designed to protect students from sexual misconduct bans direct contact between educators and students on social networking websites”
Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/08/02/new-missouri-law-bans-exclusive-online-contact-between-teachers-students/#ixzz1UUn0y1gP
One provision of the bill — section 160.069 — also prohibits...
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He's doing it again
A few of my friends have told me they’ve seen my teacher with a couple of different girls lately. Young, pretty girls who are not his relatives. He was seen picking one up, and driving with another.
FUCK I wish I could put out some sort of Amber alert like HELLOOOO HE’S DOING IT AGAIN. EVERYONE KEEP AN EYE ON THIS PERVERT. Unfortunately I know that I can’t, so basically I get...
July 2011
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lifehappenstothebestofus-deacti asked: I am writing this message to everyone I see struggling. I am doing this for your ask box because I want each and every one of you to see this. You are all beautiful. You are all perfect. You are all unique. It seems hard now, I see you struggling and I know that it would be so much easier to just give up, end all this pain. I know what it's like to not want to get out of bed in the morning...
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I had sex for the first time in four years.
I let my boyfriend see me naked. I slept at his house and felt totally comfortable. I am being myself.
I feel normal as fuck and I like it.
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“[Your abuse] doesn’t change the way I feel about you - it changes the way...”
– the guy I’m dating
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How does anyone explain this to a guy they like
It’s such a huge event in my life and something that is so relevant right now. I’m still dealing with it, so it’s not something I can really hide from a guy. So how the hell do I tell him? Most people that know who I am know some, part or lies about the story..so they already have their idea. The last guy I hung out with asked me to tell him what exactly happened so he’d...
theawesomeblogofawesomeness asked: I am sitting here in shock that anyone would mock what you are doing. You are getting a very important message out, and no, you never said you were any sort of guru. I cannot believe that someone would actually take the time to write you a message like that. I am overjoyed every time I see your posts and love reading them. You are helping so many people by putting this out there for others to see....
andorradesign asked: I just saw this on your wall: "whitestariv asked: Lol having been abused turns you into a guru?"
Uh... I'm confused. First off, the comment comes off as unsupportive and downright rude. But, also... it seems that in all the posts where you claim to know something (outside of your own experience), you CITE it. So... I don't get what this girl's problem...
Uh... I'm confused. First off, the comment comes off as unsupportive and downright rude. But, also... it seems that in all the posts where you claim to know something (outside of your own experience), you CITE it. So... I don't get what this girl's problem...
whitestariv asked: Lol having been abused turns you into a guru?
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Please if there's anyone out there..
If there’s anyone out there that has been abused by their teacher like me.. Or their coach, or something.. I would so much like to talk to you. I feel so alone. All I want is to talk to someone who really understands. We don’t have support groups here, and my kind of abuse seems so weird and rare.. I know there’s someone else out there. There has to be.
You don’t have to...
Effects of Sexual Abuse →
weareallmental:
bolding all that have applied to me
fears
anxiety
phobias
nervousness
nightmares
sleep problems
depression
shame
guilt
feeling like a victim
lack of self-confidence
feeling different from others
feeling self-conscious
feeling dirty
feeling unable to act or change…
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“If nothing changes, nothing changes.”
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“Those who say they would rather fight to the death than be raped are fools. I...”